Our Faith celebrates marriage not simply as the coming together of a man and woman in love, but, even more, as a sacrament: a visible sign of God’s grace at work in the life of the couple.  At Holy Name Church we are delighted to help couples prepare for their marriage.

Below are a few common questions we get.  Please be in contact with the Pastor with any additional questions or to schedule a meeting.

How far before the planned wedding date should we contact the church?

Normally, the initial meeting with the Pastor should happen at least eight months before the planned date for the wedding.  No arrangements should be made for a reception until after this first meeting and the setting of the marriage date with the church.

What does preparing for marriage in the Catholic Church offer us?

Marriage preparation in the Catholic Church is not just about a day, but about a lifetime.  Preparation for the sacrament involves a series of meetings that include guided questionnaires, discussions about the different aspects of marriage (practical relationship skills, reflections on families of origin, achieving a balanced life, etc.), as well as planning for the Marriage ceremony itself.  There are also two day-long experiences with talks, prayer, and guidance by older married couples on the practical aspects of married life.

Do I have to be Catholic to have my marriage at Holy Name Church?

At least one member of the couple needs to be a baptized Catholic for a marriage to take place in a Catholic Church.  Ideally they will also have received Confirmation, though this is not strictly necessary.  If your prospective spouse is non-Catholic or non-Christian, the marriage can still take place in a Catholic ceremony; the Pastor can explain further at your first meeting.

Do I have to be a member of Holy Name Parish to be married at your church?

No.  While it is the usual practice to be married at the church where one member of the couple grew up or near where you currently live, we are happy to work with couples who, for whatever appropriate reason, would like to be married at our church.

How much does it cost to be married at Holy Name Church?

The musicians have their own fee structure.  For the church, we simply ask that the couple make an appropriate donation, keeping in mind what they are spending on other aspects of the wedding ceremony.

I was married in a civil ceremony - am I able to have a sacramental celebration of my marriage?

Yes, we often work with couples in your situation. Please contact us to discuss the steps involved.

I’ve been married before – can I still get married in the Catholic Church?

Please meet with the Pastor to look at what may be possible – every situation is different, and we are happy to walk with you through the different options available.

I’m not currently going to Mass on a regular basis - can I still get married in the Catholic Church?

No matter where you are at with your faith right now, there’s a reason you found your way to this page.   For many people, preparing for marriage is also a time to re-connect with your faith and realize all that it can offer you both now and in the future.  The role of faith in Marriage will be explored throughout the process of preparation for your wedding.